This is a corollary to: Being Nice is Not a Virtue by Tallyrand.
Many men previous to discovering the dark side of women, were 'nice' from a place of weakness, out of necessity, rather than a place of strength, confidence and self autonomy where being cordial, pleasant and cooperative is a choice.
Necessity is not a virtue.
After these men discover this dark side of women either from their own observations, via MRA, MGTOW or PUA sites or a combination thereof, many become angry with women for rejecting their niceness (weakness). This can be a difficult time for men who have taken the red pill and are in the midst of unplugging themselves from the matrix.
The problem is, while many men move on from their anger and bitterness, many others become consumed and stunted by it and some are actually proud of their so called ability to spurn women, as if it were some kind of action or moralistic stance.
Involuntary celibacy is not a virtue.
This attitude is especially prevalent in MGTOW and is a the major flaw within it's ranks.
I am being critical, though I do empathise with these men. However, I find it irritating and sad to hear angst ridden rantings about achievements in ignoring women as if getting their own back, where in reality, women are indifferent to what they do not care about.
I understand there are some men who are genuinely not interested in women anymore. I am not referring to them. It is those who hide behind their resentment of how women have treated them by putting up a pretense that they are no longer interested in women anymore, where in reality it is women who are not interested in them.
They will not accept that what women are attracted to in men is an inherent part of women's nature and cannot be changed.
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